When I was a child, I would occasionally awake with a kink in my neck, and my mother would immediately take me to my grandfather, who was a chiropractor. With one adjustment—cracking the neck—everything was aligned and I felt immediate relief—ready for a full, active day at school.
In this week’s Gospel, Martha, anxious and worried, was in serious need of an adjustment. I get Martha. I feel for Martha. I am, far too often, Martha—bent out of shape. I remember a concerned friend taking my hand, ever so gently, and saying, “You seem so scattered.” I snapped, “Well, of course, look at all that I have to do!“ I was like Martha—burdened, exhausted, and resentful from having a million things to do.
Jesus insists, “There is need of only one thing.” Only one thing—“sitting beside the Lord at his feet listening to him speak”—to bring all things back into alignment. When adjusted by the one thing—our relationship with Jesus—we enter the day with the heart of God—centered, calm, and compassionate.
Several years ago, a friend gifted me with, Jesus Calling: Enjoying Peace in His Presence, by Sarah Young. This daily devotional orients readers to the one thing. Coincidentally (providentially), for the July 17th reflection: “I have called you to follow Me on a solitary path, making time alone with Me your highest priority and deepest joy. It is a largely unappreciated and often despised. However, you have chosen the better thing, which will never be taken away from you.”
Only when we take time for communing with God through scripture, prayer, and reflection, are we able to discern and follow God’s will. As Bishop Robert Barron wrote in this month’s The Magnificat, “We are rightly ordered when everything in our lives—job, family, recreation, friendships, etc.—finds its place around one still point, one center, namely, the love of God.”
As parents/grandparents, when aligned with the one thing, we name grace—God’s presence—by creating a home of love and forming our children into disciples. We name grace by leading our children to the one thing through prayer and witness. We name grace by teaching our children to choose the one thing over the many trivial things.
As Christians, when aligned with the one thing, we fulfill the great commission by bringing Jesus Christ to all people: comforting the elderly neighbor, befriending the lost teenager, serving the homeless person. We work diligently for peace and justice, understanding that, “He who does justice will live in the presence of the Lord” (Ps 115).
Each of us needs a daily adjustment to crack open our hearts and align ourselves with Jesus. When aligned, everything falls into order, and we are able to greet the day with gratitude, patience, peace, and compassion. And even those of us who are like Martha, when adjusted, can then serve with a Mary’s heart. Now, that’s good news!
The blog on this page presents reflections on the Sunday readings through the lens of a parent/grandparent, aiding leaders of the domestic church in their vital task as “first heralds” or “first preachers” of the Good News in the home.